30 Best Pride Songs – Top LGBTQ+ Playlist Ideas for 2023
Loving and accepting yourself is easier said than done, no matter who you are or what you’re going through. But music can get you through pretty much anything. Thankfully, for members of the LGBTQ+ community, there are a lot of people (including some of our favorite musical artists) who have been there before and want to offer their support through their music. Sometimes the song you need is an angsty anthem, and sometimes you need to sit in your feelings with a ballad. There are truly songs for every occasion.
Here are the best LGBTQ+-inspired songs from the recent past that help spread the idea of love and acceptance of all people, no matter who they are or who they love, and some with lyrical tips for being an ally.
“Ring of Keys,” from Fun Home
When Jeanine Tesori accepted the Tony Award for Fun Home, a coming-of-age musical based on Allison Bechdel’s autobiographical graphic novel about her own coming out and, subsequently, her father’s, Tesori said this: “For girls, you have to see it to be it.” That refers both to her career as a female composer, but also applies to the musical’s “I Want” song. It took little Allison seeing an older queer woman at a diner, and feeling that pang of recognition inside, to understand what was possible for her life.
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“Montero (Call Me By Your Name),” by Lil Nas X
Between this and Sam Smith’s “Body Shop” we’re living in a fun time for explicitly and unapologetically queer anthems. After reclaiming country music with “Old Town Road,” he’s reclaiming thin religious anti-gay arguments with lyrics like “I’m not fazed, only here to sin/If Eve ain’t in your garden, you know that you can.”
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“Grace Kelly,” by Mika
When you’ve “gone identity mad” just like Mika, this song is here for you. This song is about not putting yourself in a box and conforming to someone else’s idea of who or how you should be. Its lyrics are defiant and angry but the tune is cheerful and confident, totally in control, which makes for a cathartic combo. (Also, if you’re excited about the Wicked movie and haven’t heard Mika’s Wicked-ly talented collab with Ariana Grande called “Popular Song,” run don’t walk.)
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“Come To My Window,” by Melissa Etheridge
The singer-songwriter’s first hit post-coming out as a lesbian obviously became a gay anthem and iconic queer love song. “What do they know about this love anyway,” she sings. Sometimes that’s the message you need. Screw the people who don’t get it!
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“All The Things She Said,” by t.A.T.u
Okay, this is a complex one. The members of the girl duo t.A.T.u were considered controversial to homophobic audiences because they would sing about wlw and make out on stage, and controversial to gay audiences because they were never in a relationship and therefore queer-baiting. One of the members, Julia Volkova, made some hella homophobic remarks in 2014. That was a whole thing. But you kind of can’t deny the chokehold that their songs had on queer millennial girls. Sometimes you need angsty lyrics about how your crush is the only one that accepts you and makes you feel safe and seen.
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“I Know A Place,” by MUNA
Now MUNA, on the other hand, is a band made up of three queer members who often use their music to inspire self-acceptance and assurance that safe spaces are waiting for you. The song was featured in Alex Strangelove and also The Carmilla Movie! Maybe you know them from the Eras Tour. Maybe you also know that the also covered Britney Spears’s “Sometimes” on the Fire Island soundtrack. MUNA’s music could be your whole Pride playlist, TBH.
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“The Origin of Love,” from Hedwig and the Angry Inch
I think you kind of have to feel this song to get it. The film and stage musical (and iconic Riverdale episode) Hedwig and the Angry Inch is a complex, essential work of LGBTQ+ art. The song is about the relationship between two men, but it becomes almost epic in scale thanks to the mythological imagery in the lyrics.
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“King for a Day,” by Green Day
The parents in this song were not always accepting, but the song doesn’t care. I just think it’s important that Billie Joe Armstrong is a bisexual icon who wrote a ska song about giving gender roles the finger, okay????
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“Sissy That Walk,” by RuPaul
How can we not include a RuPaul song? From lyrics/life advice like “Unless they paying your bills, pay them bitches no mind” to “And if I fly or if I fall/Least I can say, I gave it all” this is premium inspirational material.
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“The Lavender Song,” by Kurt Schwabach and Mischa Spoliansky
Not “Lavender Haze,” y’all, calm down. It’s time for a history lesson! Also known as “Das lila Lied,” this is a German cabaret song about gay liberation that dates back to 1920. If you saw the movie Babylon last year and were surprised by how the lesbian lounge singer sang so openly about same sex attraction, know that songs like that did exist. This is one of them! In 2023, RuPaul’s Drag Race winner Jinkx Monsoon released a new cover of the song to fight anti-drag laws in the United States.
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“Body Was Made,” by Ezra Furman
This indie rock anthem is written in support of genderfluidity and desire that’s far from heteronormative. More importantly, it’s about how your body is yours and nobody’s business but your own.
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“Transgender Dysphoria Blues,” by Against Me!
With a cheeky title, this song from Laura Jane Grace’s band is very direct. Some LGBTQ+ songs make an effective use of metaphor. But trans listeners don’t need to do any decoding here. It’s about exactly what it sounds like. When she sings about having broad shoulders and “no hips to shake” that’s pretty crystal clear.
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“Follow Your Arrow,” by Kacey Musgraves
Fans of Kacey’s music already know she’s never cared much about what other people think, and in “Follow Your Arrow,” she encourages other people do the same. With lyrics like “Make lots of noise / Kiss lots of boys / Or kiss lots of girls / If that’s something you’re into” and “Say what you feel / Love who you love / ’Cause you just get so many trips ’round the sun,” she uses this song to tell her fans to live for themselves.
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“You Need to Calm Down,” by Taylor Swift
One of the earliest singles from her Lover album, this song and music video (which included cameos from many members of the LGBTQ+ community, including the cast of Queer Eye) is a celebration of shutting down the haters who try to judge what other people are doing. “You are somebody that we don’t know / But you’re comin’ at my friends like a missile / Why are you mad? / When you could be GLAAD?” Taylor sings.
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“Same Love,” by Macklemore and Ryan Lewis feat. Mary Lambert
In this song, Macklemore raps about a time he questioned his own sexuality while addressing the fact that being gay doesn’t make anyone lesser than someone who is straight. In the chorus, Mary sings lines from her song “She Keeps Me Warm” about the love she has for another woman and how she’s unwilling to change who she is to make other people more comfortable.
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“Born This Way,” by Lady Gaga
This song is probably one of the biggest LGBTQ+ anthems of the past decade—and for good reason. Not only has Gaga become a gay icon herself, but this song is all about celebrating who you are because it’s who you were born to be—no matter what.
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“Girls Like Girls,” by Hayley Kiyoko
In “Girls Like Girls,” Hayley—who is openly gay and has been called “Lesbian Jesus” by fans—sings, “Girls like girls like boys do, nothing new.” Has anything ever been more true? In the end, it really is that simple.
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“Raise Your Glass,” by Pink
So much of Pink’s music is about self-acceptance, and this song is no different. In the chorus, she sings, “So raise your glass if you are wrong / In all the right ways,” and it’s all about being yourself.
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“We R Who We R,” by Kesha
This is another song that’s all about loving yourself for who you are. While Kesha doesn’t address the LGBTQ+ community directly, this song has definitely become an anthem anyway because it’s all about being who you are and making no apologies for it.
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“Girls/Girls/Boys,” by Panic! at the Disco
Brendon Urie came out as pansexual in 2018, and in this song, he sings about love not being a choice because sometimes girls love girls and boys. In his words: “Girls love girls and boys / And love is not a choice.” Pretty simple to understand, right? If only the whole world felt that way!
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“True Colors,” by Cyndi Lauper
Taking inspiration from her sister’s coming out story, Lauper has no fears about speaking out for the LGBTQ+ community. In fact, this song about being true to yourself became such an anthem, she decided to co-found True Colors United, a non-profit organization whose focus is to end homelessness for LGBTQ+ kids. #amazing
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“Bloom,” by Troye Sivan
Well, Troye clearly wasn’t afraid to let the world know his preferred sexual position. This 2018 title track from his sophomore album is not only a great bop, but after hearing it, you’ll definitely want this to make the rounds at your next (virtual) Pride party.
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“Make Me Feel,” by Janelle Monáe
Coming out as pansexual in 2018, Monáe proudly embraces her queer identity with this hit. Not only does it give the listener some truly funky vibes (after all, Prince did work on the tune with her), but she also made the point to feature on-again-off-again GF Tessa Thompson as her love interest in the vid.
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“Strangers,” by Halsey and Lauren Jauregui
What happens when you get two proud bisexuals in the music studio? Fire, that’s what. This 2018 anthem is not afraid to tell the demise of what used to be a sexually desirable romance. I mean, if the lyrics “We’re not lovers, we’re just strangers / With the same damn hunger / To be touched, to be loved, to feel anything at all” don’t strike a chord, then what exactly does?
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“Cool for the Summer,” by Demi Lovato
Well, Demi is never one to hide how proud she is of her queer identity, and this 2015 bop is just that. Telling the tale of a budding same-sex romance, Demi brings all the sexy and confidence to the perfect summer anthem.
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“Take Me or Leave Me,” by Idina Menzel and Fredi Walker
Um, as if this isn’t the most iconic Broadway duet in the last 25 years. Taken from the groundbreaking 1996 musical Rent, these powerhouse voices (and believe me… you’ll be blown away) detail their pride for their truest identities—queerness and all.
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“I Want to Break Free,” by Queen
Aside from the band completely dressing up in drag throughout the iconic music video (can someone please get me all the costumes ASAP?), how could someone not include this on their Pride lists? I mean, the song is about letting all inhibitions go an being true to yourself.
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“This Is Me,” by Keala Settle
If you haven’t seen The Greatest Showman, stop reading this list and park yourself on the couch to watch it. Sure, the movie might take some liberty at the creation of one of the most recognizable circuses worldwide, but it’s the music which demands to be praised. I mean, with Keala Settle’s powerful voice belting out words of empowerment, how can anyone not feel the need to live life as their truest selves?
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“Dancing On My Own,” by Robyn
It’s pretty easy to see why this track has become so resonant within the queer community. With an iconic video, a pretty powerful repeated lyric, and great beats, it’s the perfect anthem to sashay away with at your next Pride event.
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“Beautiful,” by Christina Aguilera
Somehow Christina figured out exactly what we all needed to hear and crafted it into what is arguably one of the prettiest songs to ever exist. The message about loving ourselves, imperfections and all, has become a staple in the LGBTQ+ community and continues to be a source of strength for those who need just a little boost in queer faith.
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Nicole Pomarico is an entertainment writer who’s obsessed with Kate Middleton, Chrissy Teigen, and takes Riverdale way too seriously. When she’s not writing, she’s spending all of her money at Disney World.
Adrianna Freedman writes all things TV and film for Cosmo. When not binge-watching the latest series on Netflix, she is busy singing along to her favorite artists/showtunes, consuming too many coffees a day and dreaming about penning her next big story.
Leah Marilla Thomas is an entertainment writer, UNC alum, and former Hasbro Toy Tester (yes, that’s a real thing) who loves The Good Place and Love Island equally. In her alleged spare time, she’s probably either at the theater, in a park, or watching basketball.
30 Best Pride Songs – Top LGBTQ+ Playlist Ideas for 2023
